Dear Mahogany,

I can’t seem to make my boyfriend cum from a blowjob! I can go on for hours nonstop and he’ll never cum no matter what I do. He said he’s never cum from a blowjob before and he doesn’t think he can but I used to make my ex cum all the time.

Is it true some guys can never cum this way no matter what you do? Is there some trick I could use to get him to cum? I want to be the first to do that to him.

– Joy 


Dear Joy,

Yes and yes.

Some guys will never achieve orgasm even if you swing from the ceiling while deep-throating them. It’s not something you are doing wrong tho, it’s more about the picture in their head and habit.

For most guys, getting a blowjob is to detached and not as intimate as penetrative sex (even though they can wank one off in no time). For guys like this, the trick is to show them you are enjoying turning them on as much as you enjoy normal sex with them.

Others just can’t get past that belief that they will never cum unless inside you. Holding on to that alone can stop them from cumming no matter how long you go at it.

To make a guy cum from a blowjob before you wreck your jaw, try this technique.

Clear his mind with sweet talk – talk about his penis and how much you like it; how much you want to put it in you mouth; how warm and wet your mouth is and how much he’ll like it what you are about to do to him)

Start slow and gentle –  start with  stroking the length with your fingers and wet kisses  on the cap. use both hands and mouth on him at the same time.

Show him you enjoy it – don’t go quiet because he’s in your mouth. Moan loudly and look straight at him in between

Give him the same treatment – Does he like being in control when you have normal sex? Ask him to show you what he likes. Does he like dirty talk? Does he like you taking the lead? Does he like BDSM? Keep it as close to regular sex as possible

To get him off as quick as possible, let him see that you enjoy it. Same as you would enjoy seeing him enjoy eating you out.

Most importantly, make sure you’re the only thing in his head by setting the right mood.

Love,

Mahogany


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