Oral sex is something majority of men are shying away from. Your partner might even be among the men who always find one excuse or the other not to go down on you, and even after all the heart to heart sessions, and trying to get a midpoint, he still won’t go down. Now we it’s expected that by now you must be worried and even frustrated, because he is denying you the goodness of oral sex, and probably he isn’t even being honest and open about the reason why he won’t go down on you. Don’t worry, I have taking it upon myself to share with you some of the reasons why your man might be shying away from oral sex.
- YOU PROBABLY DON’T SMELL AS FRESH AS YOU THINK YOU DO:
Your man probably isn’t in the business of going down on you because of the odors coming from down there. After a long day’s work, and wild mixture of sweat and vaginal discharge that’s going on down there, it’s expected that the odor that will come from your southern hemisphere will not be friendly. You don’t expect your partner to get spontaneous and stick his mouth down there. You need to take a bath or shower first before initiating oral sex.
- THE TASTE PUTS HIM OFF:
Let’s be honest, the vagina isn’t one of the most tasty delicacies in the world, and your partner might have troubles dealing with this. Amazingly, fruits like pineapples, apples, red grapes, watermelon, and strawberries can work magic, because they are high in sugar, and some of their sugar molecule will make their way to your couchie. Also recommended are yogurts, lots of water, celery, mint and cranberry juice. Avoid alcohol, coffee, onions, smoking and anything that could make you have weird farts, bad breaths and strong smelling pee.
- HIS BELIEFS:
It is possible that your partner belongs to the school of thoughts who believe oral sex is dirty or that foreplay is a waste of time. If you find out that your partner belongs to this school of thought, then it is in your best interest to communicate with your partner as quickly as possible. The earlier the both of you communicate concerning this issue and reach a compromise, the better for both you and your partner.
- HE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO:
Have you ever imagined that the reason your partner is shying away from going down on you is because he doesn’t know how to. It’s possible your partner doesn’t know how to give oral sex, and he is not telling you because he doesn’t want to hurt is masculine ego. It’s best you have a conversation with him, and discuss your desires and sexual needs. If you are patient enough, you could walk him through it, and then you will be able to achieve your goal.
- THERE IS A FOREST DOWN THERE:
Have you even considered that maybe your man isn’t eating your pie because it’s got hair in it? Your partner may not mind the main dish (penetrative sex) been served in a bush, but when it comes to dessert (oral sex), you may have to trim the lawn or better still, get rid of the bush.
- HE IS NOT GIVING WHAT HE IS NOT GETTING:
You probably aren’t doing well in giving oral sex yourself. I suggest you spice it up a little, give it with passion and don’t just enjoy it, love it. Then watch your man repay the favor.